During the fall seasons we use to go to the forest and chop up loads of fire woods to prepare for the winter, go fishing, yard maintenance, take out the garbage, and any normal chores a male in the family would do. At the same time we also had to learn to do traditional chores that were expected for young Laotian girls such as cleaning, cooking, provide hospitality for guest and obey orders from elders. I can pretty much say my parents had the benefits of having both "sons" and daughters.
Both my parents felt that violence happens more often in big cities with a larger population, and moving away from Modesto would save us a lot of common troubles and worries that are encountered on a regular daily basis. Weed is so isolated it takes thirty minutes to go to Wal-Mart, an hour to a mall, and we shared one grocery store. I would like to describe it as a quiet setting very much on the country side. This is where I was raised for twelve years of my life. A true Podunk town.
Living in such a small town would have not taken me very far, so I decided to moved out of Weed in August of 2003; the summer I graduated from high school, while my family stayed behind. I came to Santa Rosa to live with my relative so I could find a decent paying job and further my college education.
A few months after residing here, I found a job at Redwood Toxicology Laboratory. We run lab test to detect drugs in urine, saliva, and blood. The company provides services for all types of clients such as rehab facilities, probation, court, schools, employment, and many more. I worked as a data entry tech for five years then transferred to the GC/MS department as a lab administrative assistant for another two years. I have been there for over seven years and still plan to continue my employment there. At this point I know I want to be in the medical field but I'm still undecided as to what exactly I want to spend my life doing. I am trying to get back on track with school. I took a break for a couple of years to focus on work and dedicate my time to family.
I am taking this English class simply because I love the subject even though I may not be the best at it, but I try. And also because I need to fulfill my prerequisites. The best thing about this course is that its online and this will help me get my work done anytime through out the day. I like to work in fast pace and definitely need to be a little more patient. I tend to put things aside and forget what goes on in my surroundings. If I start losing track of my studies I begin to procrastinate, so I do prefer to try and get work done early.
Things don't always seem to happen in order for me. Normally some people would expect college education first, second comes career, then comes marriage along with a baby carriage. Not for me. But either way I am happy just the way things turned out. I learned to grow and change as time went by. I may make mistakes sometimes, but I don't necessarily regret any of them because it makes me who I am today and the knowledge I have gained from such experiences.




Hi Susie,
ReplyDeleteI think things have a way of working out just the way we need them to. Thanks for sharing pictures of your beautiful family! I love that you combined American and Laotian traditions in your wedding.
I have a kindergartner too. I didn't realize how much things would change after having her start school; she has more things on her calendar than I do.
I've never heard of the town Weed, but there's still many places in California I need to visit. Is your family still living there?
I really like your last paragraph. The wording is great, it's insightful and reflective, and it ends your writing powerfully.
I'm looking forward to working with you.
Take care,
Lauren
Hi Lauren,
ReplyDeleteI'm glad you enjoyed the blog. I love sharing pictures because it gives the readers an idea or a vision of what I'm writing about. I'm sure I'll be sharing more photos through out.
All my sisters moved on and left Weed as well, but my parents still resides there. We all of course visit occasionally. Weed is in Siskiyou County, 5-10 minutes from the city of Mt.Shasta. In the first photo posted above, that mountain you see behind that arch is Mt.Shasta. I like to call it little Tahoe, because you can find the same activities through out the changes of seasons as you would if you were vacationing in Tahoe. We have all the same outdoor sports and leisure such as skiing, snowboarding, fishing, hunting, and many more. I would love to travel all over California myself.
I really appreciate your response about my last paragraph. I believe a way to well end a writing is to have a strong reflective point from one's self view.
I also shared my blog site with facebook friends. They also enjoyed it.
I'm looking forward to working with you as well.
Take care,
Susie
Hi Susie,
ReplyDeleteI also throughly enjoyed reading your blog. Thank you for sharing about your childhoold. Ironically, my son lives in Etna, which is about an hour from Weed. His name is Dylan and is about to turn 16 years old. He is currently in the Upward Bound program and has attended College of the Siskiyous for the past two summers to earn college credits. Of course I am a proud mother just like you and feel fortunate that he is focus and determined to continued on to college right out of high school.
You have a beautiful family. I look forward to working with you this semester.
Mandy Ericson
Hi Mandye,
ReplyDeletethats nice he's going to upward bound. Although I've never been in that program, I am familiar with it. College of the siskiyou is exactly right in Weed. Have you been there? nice quiet get away eh?
Thank you for your comments. I look forward to working with you this semester as well. Take care and good luck.
Susie
Hi Susie,
ReplyDeleteCongratulations on your marriage. You have a beautiful family. Sounds like even if you didn’t take that traditional route you still got there or getting there. You have a good job and a happy marriage and that’s all that counts. Some times things might not work out the way people feel it should, but sometimes it’s the best for you. If you’re happy and fulfilled that’s all that matters.
Sound like you have a pretty heavy load, working, marriage, and a son. Good luck to you and your family. It sounds like you know what you want out of life for the most part, just keep taking classes you‘ll be amazed the more knowledge that you gain the more options that you’ll have.
I look forward to this semester and working with you.
Michelle M.